Friday, May 31, 2024

The Solar Eclipse

Monday, April 15, 2024
After the baptism Justin bought some sandwiches and we all headed back to Brandons backyard to enjoy the Solar Eclipse. It was amazing. I don’t know how to explain it and you can’t capture the emotions with a photograph or video but all I can say is that it was a spiritual experience.
It was also a miracle and a tender mercy for me. The weather forecast for Monday was thunderstorms all day. Monday morning was completely overcast and you couldn’t even tell where the sun was. I said a prayer and told my Father in Heaven that I knew that in the grand scheme of things it was not important that I see the eclipse and my life wouldn’t change if I missed it but it sure would be nice if he could clear the skies enough for me to enjoy this moment.
Around noon, blue patches started showing up in the sky. I was hopeful that maybe we would be in one of those blue patches at 1:30 when full occlusion happened.
As we watched the start of the eclipse around 12:30 clouds would drift passed the sun and I figured that would be good enough to enjoy full occlusion but about ten or fifteen minutes before full occlusion, the sky cleared entirely without a cloud in site except on the horizon.

The first two pictures are the best we could do with our camera’s. The above picture is pulled from the internet. It is more what it was actually like, but I don’t think it is from this eclipse.
I would love to hear other people’s descriptions, but to me, when I took my glasses off, I saw the moon which was pitch black and the entire sky was black, but it was as if the entire perimeter of the moon was surrounded by a ring of brightly shining diamonds. It wasn’t a smooth ring but sharply jagged. It filled my soul with wonder and awe, and I truly felt the spirit. I think this picture is the closest to what I saw.
Near the right-hand bottom of the moon was a “diamond” that was glowing substantially brighter than the many other diamonds and I wondered what it could be. I was transfixed for the entire four minutes of the occlusion. This picture shows what the many diamonds actually were. They were solar flares, and you can see the brighter one on the bottom right corner.

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The electromagnetic radiation from cell phones (or electrical lines) don't have enough energy to break a DNA molecule and so can have no negative health effects. An X-ray particle on the other hand has 480,000 times as much energy as a cell phone signal particle and can damage your body.
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Thursday, May 30, 2024

Grayson’s Baptism

Monday, April 15, 2024

On Monday, April 8th, Grayson was baptized. It was a great baptism; Paul Quinn gave a talk on baptism, and I gave a talk on the Holy Ghost. As usual, I wrote out my talk but even though I have the notes in my hand, I try to not refer to them. In this case I only looked at my notes two or three times, mostly so I don’t miss anything I wanted to say.
Paul was late getting there so we got started a bit late so Ally took Grayson and Finn and explained more about what would be going on. It was fun to watch her up with the boys at the font.
Paul talked so long that I was worried about the meeting going long so I ended up cutting out half of the examples I had but I still think I got the point across, and I think it went fine. Here is a copy of the talk I prepared.

Hello Grayson, thank you for letting me share a few thoughts about the Holy Ghost with you on your baptism day.

Today you will receive the gift of the Holy Ghost, but I know you have felt the Holy Ghost many times before today. Everyone who is worthy can feel the Holy Ghost sometimes, otherwise no one would be converted, because it is the Holy Ghost that helps us develop a testimony.

The difference is that before, the Lord would send you the Holy Ghost when he needed to help you, but now, if you are worthy, the Holy Ghost can be with you always.
So, what exactly does the Holy Ghost do? Well, he does a lot more than you probably ever imagined. Let me read off a list of some of the things the Holy Ghost can do for you.

1) He tells you when something is true.
2) He can help you learn.
3) He can warn you when you are in danger.
4) He can help you remember things that you learned before, but forgot.
5) He can reveal thoughts and ideas to you.
6) He can comfort you and bring peace to your soul.

There are probably more things that he does, but I don’t want to take too much time. Let me give you a few examples of some of the ways that the Holy Ghost has helped me.
1) He tells you when something is true.

This is probably the most common thing that the Holy Ghost will do for you. When you hear something that is true, the Holy Ghost will give you a wonderful feeling inside your heart that lets you know that what you heard is true. I remember when President Nelson was called to be a prophet.

I didn’t need to ask or pray about it, as soon as they announced in conference, I knew that this was the way Heavenly Father wanted it to be. I knew that President Nelson was supposed to be the new prophet.

The same thing has happened when I have received a calling in church. The spirit often tells me that this is what Heavenly Father wants me to do.

He will do the same thing for you too.

2) He can help you learn.
You are now old enough that you are going to learn some really cool stuff at school. I love to learn, but sometimes, if I am having a hard time understanding something that I am reading, or that I am being taught, I will pray about it and Heavenly Father will send me the Holy Ghost and he helps me to understand it. Sometimes it happens right away but other times I need to study the matter for a while before I understand it but almost always the Holy Ghost will help me to learn what it is I need to know.

3) He can warn you when you are in danger.

I love to do new things and I often take chances that I shouldn’t do. Sometimes they might be a bit dangerous but I kind of like to do dangerous things. There have been a few times that I was about to do something that I thought would be fun but then I got a bad feeling about what I was about to do and I knew that the Holy Ghost was telling me that I shouldn’t do that. One time when I was a teenager, my brother and I climbed a very high mountain. There was still a lot of snow on the mountain so when we were coming down, we decided it would be a lot faster (and fun) to slide down the glaciers. This was a lot of fun but then we came to one glacier, and I got a bad feeling telling me not to do it. I listened and decided to walk around the glacier and when we got to the bottom of the glacier, I saw that it ended on a cliff. If I had slid down that glacier it is possible that I would have slid right off the edge of the cliff.

4) He can help you remember things that you learned before but forgot.
I like to read a lot and I study the scriptures just about every day. If you asked me what I studied yesterday I would probably not be able to tell you because I also forget things fast. but there have been many times when I am preparing a talk or even when I am working on a project for work that I will remember something that I read before that will be helpful for the talk I am preparing or the project I am working on. That is the Holy Ghost helping me to do my work. This happens all the time and it will also happen for you. This is especially important while you are in school as you are writing tests.

5) He can reveal thoughts and ideas to you.

If Heavenly Father wants to reveal something to you, he can do that in many different ways. He can give you a vision, he can send you an angel, he can give you a dream and sometimes you will hear a voice. Those are all very cool revelations and I have received almost all of them, but they are rare. Almost always, Heavenly Father will send the Holy Ghost to enlighten your mind. That means that he will put the thought in your mind that he wants you to know.

This happens to me all the time in my work. I will be trying to solve a difficult problem and as I am thinking about the problem, I will sometimes see the problem in my mind, and I can also see clearly how to solve the problem.

6) He can comfort you and bring peace to your soul.

Everybody has problems in their lives. It is part of why we are here on earth. If we didn’t have problems, then we couldn’t learn anything because it is by overcoming problems that we learn how to do things. Sometimes though, these problems can become scary and all we can do is worry about the problems. It can ruin our sleep, it can make us lose our appetite and it can make us quite grouchy. Heavenly Father wants us to struggle to overcome problems, but he doesn’t want us to be miserable all the time. When I get really worried about something I will say a prayer and I will ask Heavenly Father to help me have peace in my heart and he does just that. If there is something we need to be doing to solve our problems then the Holy Ghost will help us do that. If there is nothing we can do about our problems then the Holy Ghost will comfort us and take away some of the pain and unhappiness. It was a long time ago but I remember when my mother died and I was really sad. I knew that she couldn’t come back but the Holy Ghost helped me to not be so sad.

The Holy Ghost has many names, but my favorite name for the Holy Ghost is “The Comforter”. When I am sad and I pray for the Holy Ghost to comfort me it is almost like wrapping up in a warm blanket.

Do you recognize this? This blanket used to be your dad’s blanket. I remember when he used to sleep with it every night. I know Grandma gave you this blanket and now you sleep with it every night. The next time you are sad or upset I want you wrap this blanket around yourself and remember the Comforter. If you say a prayer to your Heavenly Father, he will send you the Holy Ghost to make you feel better.

What you need to always remember though, is that if you are doing things that you shouldn’t do, then the Holy Ghost can’t visit you. He won’t be with you if you are doing bad things or thinking bad or angry thoughts. If you can think good thoughts and keep the commandments, however, there is nothing that you can’t do if you have the Holy Ghost with you.
Everyone in the family knows just how Kira is not a fan of the Sunshine Hymns sung at church. The two that come to mind are, “There is Sunshine in Your Soul” and “Scatter Sunshine”. Serene played the piano and they asked Kira to lead the music. They didn’t tell her that one of the songs was “Scatter Sunshine”. Kira was not happy, but she was a good sport.

Brandon loves to reenact as many paintings and statues as he can.
While we were there Kira pulled up a picture from the last time they got their families together. We decided to get an updated picture of the two families. They have grown.

For those who may need a reminder of who these kids all are, left to right (oldest to youngest):

Griffin, Evan, Sydney, Landon, Haley, Cooper, Rosalie, Cameron (with a little encouragement from his dad), Mackenzie, Piper, Grayson, Fin

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2,000 year old seeds were found in an ancient jar in Israel. 
The seeds were planted and grown into trees that had been extinct for 1,800 years. 
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Wednesday, May 29, 2024

General Conference

Friday, April 12, 2024
It was general conference this last weekend so Saturday morning we all watched the first session of conference. After conference, we split and headed different directions. Brandon and I went with Ally and Charlotte to the airport because Charlotte had to head back to Missouri, the remaining women went antiquing, and Justin took the kids to a movie. He is a brave man and from all accounts, Cameron made the trip in the van a memorable experience.
Sunday morning was conference again and then between sessions we went for a walk in a nearby park. It was stunning.
It was a two mile walk with a paved walkway, so it was perfect for Evan. Most of it was shaded with lush woods and we were visited by several Cardinals. We tried to take pictures of the cardinals but they were all too far away to be worth sharing.
We enjoyed the many blue bonnets that were in bloom and a pretty little creek paralleled the path for much of the way. It was a great walk.
At the end of the walk, we were now two miles away from the van but I hadn’t run in a while so I was happy to run back to the van and drive it to the other end of the trail.
Blue bonnets were growing everywhere, and they were beautiful. I guess they have a problem with people walking out to pick them and smell them and they end up getting trampled because there were signs everywhere asking people to leave them alone. We didn’t pick any and only smelled those that were close to the trail.
I have such beautiful daughters.
And a beautiful family.
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4% of the sand on Omaha Beach consists of small iron beads from shrapnel created during the battle.
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Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Brandon & Ally got Sealed

Thursday, April 11, 2024
About three months ago I bought tickets to Dallas so that I could watch the solar eclipse that was going to happen on April 8. Lisa wanted to go, but she didn’t want to miss any more work, so she didn’t buy a ticket.

At some point Brandon & Ally decided that there was no good reason for them to wait to get sealed in June, and if I was coming out for the eclipse then they would just buy mom a ticket and they would get sealed that weekend. They invited the family but the only one who came was Kira’s family.
To make a wonderful experience even better, the father of Ally’s son Cooper gave Brandon & Ally permission to have him sealed to them. I knew that when a child is sealed to a parent, the rest of the family who is temple worthy (or under eight years old) can witness the sealing, but I had no idea that step siblings can also witness the sealing. When Brandon shared a group temple recommend listing all his kids who were eight and older I was surprised, but we were all confused as to why the younger kids couldn’t go. We all let it go at that but of course, mom couldn’t let it go, so she called Salt Lake to ask about it. It is a good thing she did because they directed her to a section in the church handbook that made it clear that any child, step or otherwise, can witness the sealing of a child to a parent no matter what age.
They sealed Brandon & Ally first and mom and I were asked to be witnesses. It was a very spiritual moment when all these kids (except Griffin) were led into the sealing room to witness Cooper being sealed to his mother and Brandon. It was wonderful.
The people in this picture are (left to right), Charlotte, Hayley, Griffin, Grayson, Ally, Brandon, Fin, Mackenzie, Rosalie, and Cooper.
After the sealing, we all headed back to the house to get ready for the open house being held in their backyard that evening.
Justin and I helped Brandon hang some twinkle lights and the yard looked nice. They catered some delicious tacos and a very pretty desert table. At first, I was worried that no one would show up but about a half hour after it was supposed to start, they had a huge crowd show up.
Two of Brandons good friends were there. Jenny, a friend from his freshman year at BYU was at the sealing and Alicia Bird, a childhood friend, and her husband Toby were at the sealing.
As it happened, Alicia’s parents, Alan and Melanie Bird, also good friends of Lisa & I, were in town for the eclipse, so they came to the reception as well.
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If you don't count the area of Canada that is water, then the United States is bigger than Canada. 
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Friday, May 24, 2024

Gent

February 27, 2024

Tuesday morning, we got up, ate a nice breakfast with Marleen, and said our goodbyes. The plan for today was to drive to Brussels, tour the city and then head to the airport. In my mind Brussels is a boring city and other than the Grote Markt and the Mannikin Piss there isn’t much to see.

Lieve, the girl who came to visit us in Antwerpen, used to be a tour guide in Gent and offered to show us around the city, so we accepted her kind offer and headed to Gent.

We picked Lieve up at her house and then drove into downtown Gent. We parked near the Grote Markt and then walked around the area.

The Grote Markt
A cool building in the Grote Markt
This is the largest medieval canon that has been preserved from anywhere in Europe. It was cast in 1382. In Dutch, the name of this canon means “evil Woman”. Maybe because it has a very large mouth? It isn’t too evil though, because it has never been fired.
These water fountains are spread around the city. The upper fountain is for the people, and they have a lower one for pets.
It may not be the “Venice of Europe”, but Gent does have some beautiful canals.
I think these little girls going pee are someone’s idea of equal rights. If the Manikin Piss can go pee in public so can these girls. Their names are Lena and Luna.
This castle is famous. As much as I love touring castles, it was quite expensive to get in and I would have been there all day. In the interest of time, we passed on the tour.
We were able to peak through a window and get a picture of the foundation.
The gateway to the Old Fish Market, where Neptune keeps watch over the Scheldt (male) and the Lys (female).
More pretty canals
Havenhuis, (Port House) is located on the banks of the river Lys, this area was an important inland port in Gent from the 10th until the 19th century. Afterwards, all port activities were moved to the north of the city .
The North Sea Port company bought the old guildhall in 2011, restored it and opened it to the public. You could say that part of the port returned to its birthplace.

Koornstapelhuis (grain weighers house) dates from around 1200 and is the oldest house in the area. It was originally a public warehouse for storing grain. The Tolhuisje, originally a customs house, dates from 1682. The Gildhuis der Graanmeters was built for the Guildhouse of Grain Weighers in 1698.
This McDonalds is in a very old building in a very expensive area of Gent. They originally rented the space but as prices in the area soared (along with their rent) they bought the building.
We were in Belgium; we needed our daily chocolate fix.
I’m not sure what was in this but it was apparently made by Fred so it must be good.
Built during the sixteen hundreds, this building has been home to some very rich people. Some famous people who have stayed here include the French King Louis XVIII, the Russian Tsar Alexander I and Frederick I, Prince of Orange. The interior has been completely restored.
The building changed hands a few times until 1953 when it became a protected monument. The city of Ghent bought it in 1981.

After spending a few hours in Gent we moved on to Brussels. We dropped Lieve off at her house, thanked her profusely for her time, and then headed to Vilvoorde. Vilvoorde is a suburb of Brussels and was my second area.
When I first arrived in Vilvoorde, we were in this apartment on a very busy street. The strangest thing about the apartment was that it had a shared bathroom. There was also a little girl in the apartment who loved to chat us up every time she saw us.
After taking a couple of pictures of the apartment we moved on to the burial sight of William Tyndale. Tyndale was born in England but was a bit of a rebel and got on the bad side of the Catholic church. He fled to Belgium and hid out in Vilvoorde. One of the many things he did to annoy the Catholic church was to translate the Bible into English. Up until this time, the Catholic church had claimed that only the clergy should read the bible and they wanted to keep it in Latin so no one could argue with them.
Tyndale's translation was the first English Bible to draw directly from Hebrew and Greek texts, the first English translation to take advantage of the printing press, the first of the new English Bibles of the Reformation, and the first English translation to use Jehovah ("Iehouah") as God's name as preferred by English Protestant Reformers.

The Catholics caught up to him in Vilvoorde and burned him at the stake. “Mercifully”, they strangled him before they set the fire.

When our mission president found out that our apartment had a shared bathroom, he instructed us to find more appropriate accommodations. We were teaching a family that had some rental property and we eventually moved into their rental house. I use the word house loosely because I don’t know what to call it.
It was a two-story building that touches on both sides to the adjacent house. Most houses in Belgium do that. We had the bottom floor, but no one lived in the upper floor. We did have access to the attic, however.

I remember one time when I was feeling down, I went up to the attic and said a very sincere, verbal prayer for peace and support. It was one of the more special spiritual experiences of my life. I felt an overwhelming peace overcome my entire body. I knew that God loved me and that I was where he wanted me to be.

This apartment (house?) and the city became my favorite place in my entire mission. We taught a lot, and while we only baptized three people, everyone loved us, and we became rather popular.

The area has changed a lot since I was there. This wooded area and the houses in the background were a huge park when I lived here. We walked on a path through here to get to the communities that lived up on a hill.
One day when we were walking through the park these little paper darts came flying at us. There were some young kids hiding in the bushes and they were shooting at us. We talked to them, and they showed us how they would roll strips of paper into cones and shoot them through plastic tubing.
We promptly went out and got us some plastic tubing and had many battles with those kids. We got so good that we could shoot flies off the walls of our apartment.

Right across the street in front of our apartment was a major canal that always had freight barges running up and down it. One night we were teaching this single lady named Mevrouw Van Campenhout, she confided in us that she had attempted suicide once in the past and that she kept a full bottle of valium in case life got too hard for her. We didn’t leave that place until she gave us the bottle of valium. On our way home we threw the bottle into the canal. I think there were some very calm and peaceful fish in that canal for a while.
We kept visiting Mevrouw Van Campenhout and she soon joined the church. I have since learned that she was strong throughout her life. She received her endowments and attended as often as she could. She died younger than she should have due to a weak kidney from her earlier attempted suicide.

Another family that we taught was the Delange family. They had four girls and a son that ranged from about ten to eighteen. The three younger girls kept hanging out around our house and couldn’t understand why we wouldn’t let them in our apartment.

One night we were sitting on our bikes outside a pub using the light from the signs to look through our area books trying to decide where to go next. This drunk from the pub came out and was harassing us. Suddenly, out of the blue came this kid who punched the drunk out and left him dazed laying on the sidewalk. It was the Delange boy making sure we were OK. He never sat in on our discussions, but he was definitely our protector.

Just south of our house was a huge overpass that crossed over our canal. The airport was just east of this canal and every plane that left the Zaventem airport passed over this canal. We always used to day dream how some day that would be us.
We then drove to that very same airport, which was close to where we were, checked into the hotel and took a train into Brussels. As we walked toward the Grote Markt we passed this big sign in one of the shop windows. For those who didn’t know, Smurfs were created in Brussels in 1928. By the time I arrived in 1977 they were very popular all over Europe.
As I said earlier, while Brussels is a beautiful city, there isn’t much touristy stuff to see. Walking along the streets as the sun set made the place look beautiful.

The Mannikin Pis, “little boy peeing” is only a couple of blocks from the Grote Markt.
Other than the Mannikin Pis, the only other thing you must visit in Brussels is any place that sells Belgian Waffles. These are called Brussels Waffles in Belgium.
There are two kinds of popular waffles in Belgium. The Brusselse Waffels are fluffy and often eaten with whipped cream and other toppings on them and Liegese Waffels which are heavy and filled with large chunks of sugar. They are sold and eaten like chocolate bars are sold and eaten in the states.
And then you have the frituurs that are scattered around Belgium like hamburger joints are scattered around America.
Walking back to the Grand Markt we passed this statue of a dead guy. The sign said that if you rub him it gives you good luck. We figured we could always use some good luck.
The city of Brussels was founded in the year 979 so when I was there in 1979, they were celebrating their millennium. That is weird for me to even say it. A millennium! They had some pretty glorious festivities going on. We wandered around the Grote Markt for a bit admiring the beautiful buildings. On a warmer evening this place would be filled with people.
The Brussels city hall was built in the early 1400’s.
Once we finished admiring the Grote Markt we hopped back on the train and headed back to our Budget Hotel.
When I say, “budget” hotel I mean “budget”. This place was quite cheap. It was very nice, but it was barely big enough for our queen bed. Alex slept on a bunk bed above our bed. I was a bit worried, but he stayed up there.

I’m not sure which was worse, this tiny bathroom that you had to back into or our open-air bathroom in Ieper. If Alex is around, I suppose I would have to choose this bathroom so my backside doesn’t get spread across the internet.
The next morning, we woke up to a very cold day, returned our frozen car and found our plane.
We had an uneventful flight to Chicago where I said goodbye to Mom and Alex, and I flew on to San Diego. Mom had previously booked tickets for Roots Tech.
So that was our trip to Europe. It took me longer to write about it than the trip itself took. It was a great trip, and it was great to visit good people from my past.